It’s good to have high standards, right? Virtue is “moral excellence,” so wanting excellence is a virtue, right? Certainly, having high standards can be good; however, when you move from wanting good to expecting only the best, you lead yourself down the road of broken expectations towards burnout. Maximizers and Satisficers Herbert Simon began with […]
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Terri and I recorded a podcast with Next For Me, which was released in their Mindset Makeover newsletter last week. In it, we speak with Jeff Tidwell about why we started writing about burnout and how burnout affects both people and organizations. You can listen in on the Next For Me website here: https://nextforme.com/extinguish-burnout-by-terri-and-rob-bogue/ .
Rubber bands are amazing things. The can power flight in the form of balsa wood planes. They can hold things together. They may just be strips of stretchy rubber, but they can be useful for a variety of purposes. The limitations of rubber bands is that, when you stretch them too much, you break them, […]
“I felt like I slammed myself against the wall,” says Jan Byars, Ph.D., president of LeadSync, which provides professional training and coaching. “I just kept pushing through, even to the point of my legs feeling numb.” Soon after, Byars says, she couldn’t push forward any longer. It was more than exhaustion; there was a disconnect […]
Sometimes the feeling of burnout creeps in under the radar. There’s the random thought that shows up in the middle of dinner, while driving home, or in the shower. It’s something that “has” to be done, and it prevents you from attending to whatever is happening right now. Left unattended, those thoughts can steal your […]
Have you ever wondered what might be causing you to feel tinges of burnout? Your life’s going well. You just got a promotion at work. The kids are succeeding in school and sports. But there’s something wrong that you can’t put your finger on. Perhaps the cause of your burnout isn’t that things aren’t going […]
Have you ever been to a tourist trap? The kind of mini-museum that promises oddities or a comprehensive look at medieval torture devices that you won’t believe? You know, at some level, that you’re not going to be entering a life-changing experience. It’s something that’s amusing enough to kill an hour or so and separate […]
It takes courage to confront burnout. It takes courage to acknowledge that you’re in it and to confront the factors that are keeping you in it. If you’re in burnout, finding or creating the courage to confront it may seem impossible, but it isn’t. Creating the courage to confront burnout is not only possible for […]
Will you pass gas in front of your friends and loved ones? For some the answer is a squeamish no, for others the question is met with a shrug and a timid “sure”, and occasionally you’ll get an enthusiastic “yes!” The question may seem odd or innocuous, but it may indicate something larger. It may […]
Have you ever found yourself trying to fit into a role that really didn’t match your core beliefs yet you wanted to be chosen for? Maybe it is the person always chosen to host an event or coach a team. You may not really want to fill that role, but you want to be thought […]